At the Center of It All

I have touched upon different and influential philosophies that each culture embraces and uses to direct their life experience. Regardless of which ideology you choose to adopt, there are markers along the way that show you the position of your knowledge, skills, understanding and/or progress of growth.


Each one of us is on the same journey. Each one of us is presented with challenges or tests to recognize and prevail over. Each one of us is working to fulfill our “soul’s contract” towards reunification with the Divine.

The levels for which we must pass through are all the same. But, the method or event that moves us through those levels is contingent upon the lessons that our soul/spirit must learn and our success in growing beyond that challenge. Jesus referred to this as ‘The Way.’ Buddha called this the Eight Fold Path. Abraham Maslow outlined this process as the pyramid towards self-actualization (enlightenment), his Heirarchy of Needs. Many ancient cultures refer to these markers as ‘Stages of Initiation.’ Regardless of what you call it, each stage signifies advancement on the physical and spiritual (Earthly and Divine) plane.

Let me share an example to help clarify this point.

Based upon my spirit’s movement, let’s say that I need to learn to balance discernment. People and situations will continue to manifest in my life that offer me the option to judge a situation appropriately and select the ‘right action.’ Oftentimes, people choose answers or avenues that fit their comfort level in dealing or not dealing with the situation. Nonetheless, the ‘right action’ may be contrary to their comfort level and demand a more definitive solution.

Example: Barbara does not like to deal with angry people. She is shy and insecure with her place in the world. In order for Barbara to grow beyond her shyness and insecurities, people and situations will arise in her life to challenge that aspect of herself. She may have a sibling that always ‘pushes her buttons.’ She may be ‘taken advantage of’ at work. She may encounter scenarios in the park, on her street or with friends, wherein she has the opportunity to speak up and exercise confidence and assertiveness. When Barbara acts appropriately and overcomes this hurdle, she will advance to the next level of learning.

Sometimes, it takes a person (spirit) an entire lifespan to pass one test!

So, on that note, the quote of the day is:

“Be gentle with those who move in and through your life. They are doing the best that they can, at the present moment, with the information that they currently have.” tc

Lincoln Highway

Abraham Lincoln was the 16th president of the United States. At the foot of this memorial in Wyoming, the plaque reads, “We must think anew and act anew.”


What an inspiring quote to come upon in my Western travels. “Think anew and act anew…………”

What does that mean? Well, I began to take a glimpse of my life and could see that major changes occurred in my life when I followed this theory. Thinking anew meant that I had to step out of the box of conditioned and expected life routines in order to advance on my journey. This practice was met by resistance from my family and friends questioning my motives for such seemingly ‘radical’ life choices. Additionally, I had to confront and overcome the learned behaviors that had once formed the principal ideals that shaped my understanding of life.

Acting anew meant that I had to brave enough to ‘walk the talk.’ It is one thing for people to espouse philosophies, ideas, practices, theories and systems. It is another thing to LIVE THEM. When I began acting anew, I felt liberated, guided, free, loved, protected and joyful at the simplicity of how life ought to be lived.

So, on that note, the quote of the day is:

“Great minds not only think-it-through, they live-it-fully.” tc