Because of You

Do you find yourself thinking or saying things like this a lot:

Gosh, why can’t you ever get it right?
Do I have to do everything around here?
Why can’t you do something?
How many times do I have to ask you to do that?
She/He is so lazy.
They always mess up.

This type of attitude shows a clear mentality of one lacking in taking responsibility. If you find yourself always blaming other people for what is not going right in your life, you need to pause and do a little self-reflection. It is never entirely the other person's fault.

Additionally, no one else is responsible for your life but YOU. If things are not going the way you would like them to go, then change your actions. If people are not living up to your expectations, then you need to change your approach. If the burdens you are carrying are too heavy, then you need to lighten your load.

So, on that note, the quote of the day is:

“If you find yourself always bumping heads with others, maybe you should look at what you need to work on in order to negotiate a compromise.” tc

Lumped Together

It is a wonderful feeling to have a caring family that loves you, encourages your dreams and helps you out when times are tough. It is also great to have a handful of friends to hang out with and share life’s ups & downs with. It is good to belong to a religious organization that teaches you and promotes a growing faith in a Higher Being. It is also fun to belong to a group or organization that supports you and makes you feel right at home.

Have you noticed that the people and groups that you associate with reflect what you believe? You might think that this is a no-brainer! However, when you look at all of those around you, you will see the thoughts, feelings, actions, morals, judgments, and ideals that influence and reinforce YOUR behaviors.

Those same groups and individuals that you connect with, outsiders will assume that you have the similar opinion of and will judge you accordingly. If you do not want to be judged, criticized or associated with a specific clan then you should not put yourself in their company.

So, on that note, the quote of the day is:

“Surround yourself with like-minded people because you will become like the ones around you.” tc